Intimacy views from Osho

Master Osho says himself: Never born Never died just visit earth of life since 11. Dec.1931 till 19. Jan. 1990-----He's the master gave answers to my life since life is so hard to carry on with broken heart, i felt much better after He gave me a bird look of life. Today from his view of intimacy...well that's a big problem in life even everyone thought it'll comes naturely, just not me because it's always bothering me while relationship is going on to me.The first chapter is ask yourself who are you in intimacy? whenever you could recognise that, Put down fear about intimacy....be honest to each other since true can last forever ,cant always fake in relationship, listen to your heart and trust yourself, don't let insecure take over you in relationship,  fear cant scare you but just jump in insecure totally could fix, he says love is the aim of live and life, we all need intimacy , let adventure became true, learn how to communicate in silence (which mean without talk), in intimacy reflect your old habits sand bad habits and have chance to seek yourself deep inside of you, do not be obsessive to feelings of secure, admit that I'm weak inside, that's why charm people scared us all the time because I'm not confidence inside, that's all because I'm afraid get into deeply truly and profound relationship, how pity that if you cant have moments in life to live, take courage to explore inside of yourself  with disarm and undefent yourself all the time, Joy will like rain full all over you,  Take courage to explore yourself, hold back who you are always , that made yourself mentally go to many different ways, you're acking, but you know that's not you in relationship, see....you're fighting yourself inside, anything you fight inside, all destroy you in the end, nobody won in relationship at that way. What's give and take in relationship? From Osho's view.. People always thought he/she is the one who always give in relationship...such like take care child ..put food on table, gift to girlfriend/boyfriend....community to be famous you...from Osho's view...unless you could give to yourself...well you cant Give, cause you gave money to people you care and you're not money...Only you're capable to Give love, or you don't know what's Give. Same as Take...unless you're capable to take love , or you don't know what's Take, at first you don't respect yourself which mean when love comes to you, you just think that you don't deserve love, you cant even picture a simple fact, because you never accept yourself, never love yourself, so how could you accept love from other's? Live and learn from live and life, i do still believe God is my consciences, judge us each day, there's no judge day since who can fool heart and eyes which from conscience. There's still happy couples i saw in very happy marriage, live and learn to recognise the one you could share life with.